Last August, my younger sister, Sherry, called me in a flurry of excitement. Interpol was going to be playing in Denver September 27 at the Ogden Theatre! I could hardly believe it and I also didn’t see how I could possibly pull this off. With the boys’ needs I was lucky to go to the grocery store or run errands. I had to fly. This was a sticking point with me because I am not fond of flying and it would be for only one night. I decided that I was not going. My oldest son, Christian, kept encouraging me but I wouldn’t budge, especially since I would have to take Dramamine. If you have taken it you are probably familiar with the drowsiness that accompanies the relief. I kept going back and forth until Christian told me that if it was his favorite band he would go. It breaks my heart that he never went to a concert. We live in an area of the nation that does not get much action where music is concerned. He enjoyed listening to Wiz Khalifa, Nas and his favorite musician was Kid Cudi. After he said that I booked the tickets.
I was nervous and excited as I waited to board the plane. I even had the song picked out that I would listen to as we took off – “Anywhere” off of the El Pintor album. We landed safely less than 3 hours later and my sister and brother-in-law picked me up. Before I knew it, we were in line. They had a promotion for people who owned a Samsung phone and luckily, my sister had one. We were able to go to the front of the line! It was awesome!
You see that Interpol poster behind us? My sister, the ultimate haggler, talked one of the employees into letting us have two of them! It was all meant to be!
The opening act, Rey Pila, was awesome. They are out of New Mexico and they rocked. The bass in the Ogden is so strong that it literally jars your insides. I was so pumped to see my favorite band! When Sam Fogarino, Daniel Kessler and Paul Banks took to the stage I was beside myself! They sounded exactly how I imagined – AWESOME! They played a lot of their new music along with my favorites off of their older albums. Paul Banks sounded incredible, Sam had so much energy on the drums and Daniel Kessler rocked the house on his guitar!
My sister and I had the best time at the concert and we also visited the record store next door. We had a ball. She found a vintage Pink Panther record and I found some flawless Dean Martin records among others.
The flight home was wonderful. I listened to my El Pintor album and looked out the window the whole way. The view was outstanding.
I would have never gone to the concert if it wasn’t for my son. He lost so much over his last years of life as he dealt with more pain. I knew that I needed to overcome my fear of flying and just do it. I had no idea, however, that Christian would pass away exactly a month later on October 27. Now, whenever I have memories of the concert, I will remember that I did it for him.
The night before Christian passed, he asked me about one of my albums by Paul Banks, Skyscraper. It was the last music Christian ever talked about with me and he loved so much different music. When we had to plan his funeral, I included the Madrid Song and On the Esplanade off of the Skyscraper album. Both songs are beautiful and I understand why Christian mentioned the album. I made a slideshow and used these two songs and it was absolutely beautiful.
Music is such a large part of our daily lives and it was everything to Christian. We had to stay home a lot and it helped to brighten many days. I am thankful to have come across such a wonderful band. Thank you Paul, Daniel and Sam for expressing yourselves in your music and enriching our lives.
On October 21, I was blessed to see my favorite band, Two Door Cinema Club, in concert with my sister in Denver! My husband surprised me with tickets last June. Being a full time caregiver, my going out consists of books and coffee at my favorite coffee house, errands or some occasional shopping. It had been years since I was able to get away by myself – for 4 nights! I rented a car, a Nissan Sentra, plugged in my Two Door Cinema Club playlist and away I went! It took me a couple of hours to relax and get used to not seeing anyone in the back seat. I rarely go anywhere in a vehicle by myself so this was a new thing for me! It was about the time I reached the wind farm by Judith Gap that it started to sink in that I was on a trip by myself! Yes!
Everything went smoothly until I missed the turnoff for Billings by Lavina. I ended up close to Roundup so I was about 45 minutes out of the way. I eventually made it to Billings, passed the ramp for I-90 only once and it was interstate all the way to my sister’s house. I didn’t leave home until 2:00 so it was getting dark by the time I saw Billings in my rearview. I continued to enjoy my tunes and had to turn them up louder once I reached I-25. This portion of I-25 is straight and I was beginning to feel drowsy. After almost hitting a huge porcupine and seeing only 4 deer along the entire drive, I made it to Douglas.
My sister, Sherry, and I had Sunday to relax before our big day in Denver. She is a volunteer firefighter so she showed me around the station. This gave me a visual of what she deals with and I really admire her and her husband, Pat, for what they do. I had the privilege of meeting Sherry’s good friend, J.J., and her two wonderful sons. I visited with my niece and nephew and briefly saw my brother-in-law between his workdays. I went to bed that night very relaxed and thankful for family and new friends.
We left for Denver early and arrived in Fort Collins in time for lunch. We ate at Mad Greens which was delicious. It was located close to the university and the trees were golden with the light of autumn. Once we got back onto the interstate, traffic started to become heavier and more lanes were appearing. I am a Montana girl not used to city driving, so I had to keep telling myself to chill out. We used Siri on my iPhone as we started to approach Denver. My stomach started doing flip flops when downtown Denver came into view. Next thing I knew, I could see Coors Field and we were approaching Colfax Avenue, which is where our hotel and the Ogden Theatre is located. It went smoothly except for the old woman who drove her wheelchair into the middle of the intersection I was approaching and the red light I had to run because I didn’t even know it was there! By the time we reached our hotel, I was nauseated, relieved and excited. I kept telling myself, this is it! I am actually going to see my favorite band tonight!
We had plenty of time to walk down to a record store right next to the Ogden Theatre and grab a bite to eat at an Irish eatery. We went back to the hotel and I could hardly sit still for all of the excitement. We left early and there was already a line. Most of the people in line had big X’s on their hands for under 21 and my sister and I were one of the few with over 21 bracelets on.
At one point while we were standing in line, we saw two guys run by that looked like they were straight out of the 70’s. We laughed a little and continued waiting for the doors to open. We were fairly close to the front of the line so we were able to stand in the front section. We eagerly waited for things to start and I was surprised at how close we were to the stage. I could hear a lot of excitement building for one of the opening acts, St. Lucia, who I had never heard before.
It was 8:00 and the opening act came out! I looked at the lead singer and lead guitarist and my jaw dropped! They were the two guys who ran by us earlier. Come to find out, they were straight out of England – Peace was the name of their band. They were very good. We laughed at ourselves for not knowing who they were. As St. Lucia’s turn was approaching, I could feel the energy in the crowd building. Sherry and I had to hold our stance and keep our place in the front section. The Ogden is smaller so it wasn’t as bad as it could have been. Only one guy tried to cut in front of us and Sherry pretty much told him where to go. Not many will press their luck with her – she is tough as nails.
I am surprised to this day how much I remember about St. Lucia – their enthusiasm, energy, the music and more. As I listen to Elevate at this moment, I feel like I am there. Everyone of them looked so happy and full of life. It was impossible to stand still as I watched the beautiful woman in front of me play the keyboards, shake the tambourine and jam out. Once they were finished, the drummer threw out his drumsticks. Some girls next to us were fighting over one and Sherry took her chance. They all knew better than to try grabbing it back! I am happy to say that it is safely sitting on my piano as I write this.
The set up for Two Door Cinema Club took the longest. I could hardly contain myself. The girls in front of us left to meet St. Lucia and next thing I knew, Sherry pushed me up into the spot they were in. I was right up front!!! The lights went out, fog began to rise and I could see them entering the stage. My eyes started to water! Next thing I knew, Alex Trimble was up there and the bassist, Kevin Baird, was right in front of us! I could feel the music in every cell of my body and as I listened to the songs that were so familiar to me, I was amazed to see it all unfolding in front of me. The music was flawless and I couldn’t stand still. Sherry had to take most of the pictures because I couldn’t stop dancing!
Once it was over, Sherry and I could feel our age. We were sore and tired. That night I awoke around 3:00 and I still had adrenaline. It took me over an hour to go back to sleep.
We enjoyed the rest of our time in Denver at a cute consignment shop on Colfax and a small coffee house across the street. The drive back to Wyoming was relaxing and the weather was beautiful.
The morning I left was so hard, as I knew it would be. I cried in private as I packed and didn’t waste too much time leaving since I had a 9 hour drive ahead of me. I kept myself together until I hugged my niece and nephew again. I bawled as I said goodbye and Alex, my niece, said they were tears of joy. I look back on it today and realize that she was right. They were tears of joy for an experience I will remember for the rest of my life – the concert, the time with my sister and meeting new friends. I took several pictures and will keep them close, saving them until I need them most. I may not be able to do something like this again for some time. My sons’ disease is progressive and I find them needing more and more help. My husband is the greatest guy on the planet for taking such good care of them while I was away. I may have been annoying for a while after I returned, showing off my photos and talking about the concert, but it’s only because I have given so much up since I left my career in 2005. This more than made up for it and I will always be thankful!