A Journey to Share

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I have asked myself several times over the last couple of months why I have not been posting to my blog.  The excuses have been varied:  I don’t have time.  I don’t want to bring anybody down.  No one wants to hear about my grief.  There is nothing exciting going on in my life.

I read in one of my grief books that we should not waste our pain.  Our pain, the difficulties we face and how we overcome them inspire others and give them hope.

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Christian always wanted to help but wasn’t able to.  He said he would help with the dishes, mow the lawn, and do the things that most kids throw a fit over having to do if he was physically capable.  He was helpful even at a young age and in many photos I have taken of him, he has his arm around his younger brother, Andrew.  Christian wasn’t able to join the football team or do chores around the house, but he was able to love and inspire.  He taught people that just because he was in a wheelchair didn’t mean that he couldn’t go to school and work just as hard, sometimes harder, than the rest of the kids.  Everyone who met Christian became inspired by his kindness, eagerness to help and learn, and his spirit.  Somehow, either by posting in my blog, drawing or painting (Christian was passionate about art), helping other parents overcome the daily challenges of living with Duchenne MD or one day writing a book about our experiences with DMD, I will use my pain for something good.

Author: lhaney

Mother of 2 great boys, full time caregiver, and wife. I enjoy reading, photography and music.

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